If It Should Be...

I received word from Tia Coreen that Chere, her older toy poodle close in age to Cordelia, needs to euthanized. I cry as I write this - beware, this post is a tearjerker. We also keep in our thoughts my cousin and his family as they also recently euthanized their 14 year old labrador retriever.

The decision is “just so hard.” but because something is hard, it doesn’t mean it’s not right. In fact, some of the most meaningful things we do in life are difficult — raising children, staying with a spouse through thick and thin, honoring our responsibilities, and being with loved ones during their last moments. This poem expresses that euthanizing a pet who is suffering (or when suffering is imminent) ia the  ultimate expression of love. 

The Last Battle
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then will you do what must be done,
For this — the last battle — can't be won.
You will be sad I understand,
But don't let grief then stay your hand,
For on this day, more than the rest,
Your love and friendship must stand the test.
You wouldn't want me to suffer so.
When the time comes, please, let me go.
Take me to where to my needs they'll tend,
Only, stay with me till the end
And hold me firm and speak to me
Until my eyes no longer see.
It is a kindness you do to me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I have been saved.
Don't grieve that it must be you
Who has to decide this thing to do;
We've been so close — we two — these years,
Don't let your heart hold any tears.

If it should be that I grow frail and weak

We have had so many happy years,

I know in time you will agree

— Unknown

To quote Dr. Seuss, “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”